This week I began a new Bible study by Beth Moore called "Living Beyond Yourself: Exploring the Fruit of the Spirit" an online Bible Study. My good friend Karin (who I taught with at Bailey) is also doing the study. We will meet once a week to watch the online video and discuss what we learned the previous week. We both know that having accountability is crucial for both of us to press on when life gets busy and we get sidetracked. Here are some thoughts/reflections I've had so far this week. Things in italics are words directly from the study.
- The overwhelming majority of those poor choices we make are a result of seeking someone's approval and acceptance...a desire to fit in.
- He never asks anything of us to make Himself look better. The demands He makes on our lives are NEVER for His personal gain. We cannot make Him any more God than He already is. He would be no less Lord of lords if no one believed. Every urging and exhortation of God to us is for one major reason. He desires that we have the pleasure of knowing, serving, and sharing Him.
- You can trust only One to constantly be on the lookout for your best interest. Only One holds the future in His hands and knows your part in that future. Only one cares for you with a perfect unconditional love. Only one can make "all things work together for good." (Romans 8:28)
- Attaining the approval of others does not mean seeking the approval of others. Praise God if, in seeking to please Him, you accidentally end of pleasing others.
"I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me" Galatians 2:20
Ten Characteristics of the Crucified Life
1. Few will understand-- If you seriously decide to live a life crucified to self and alive in Christ, you will discover that few will understand. More importantly, those who misunderstand will most likely be the ones you have to relate to the most.
2. You must abandon your own will and your own agenda--As long as you have your own plans/agenda and continue to nuture your own desires the personalized daily will of God for you will be thrwarted. Do you think Christ wanted to suffer and die on the cross? No way, He could have easily said "No thanks I don't want to do that" but he abandoned his own desires to fulfill God's plans for Him. Of course abandoning our own plans certainly doesn't mean we're God's will is a doomsday, horrible thing. He wants great things for us. Once we let go of what we think we want we can be blessed by what God wants for us. I think of my friend Kelly who wanted nothing more than to get pregnant and have kids. But once she surrendered her own personal desires God immediately gave she and Ryan the desire to adopt. Now they have two incredible children who bless them daily. If she had not let her own plans go she could still be trying to conceive her own, biological child and you can bet she would be miserable, wondering why her prayers weren't being heard. When you're prayers aren't being answered maybe God is just waiting for His perfect time for them to be answered the way you think you want them answered, but maybe He's just trying to get you to change your perspective and begin praying for His will to be revealed to you. Just a thought that I frequently struggle with.
3. Your intimate spiritual companions will be few--- There may be few people who can choose to walk the same road with you. Not the people who you go to church with..the people who only see your happy, everything's fine personality, but rather those people who know your deepest, hardest spiritual struggles...those friends who see you cry and struggle and rejoice over the smallest revelations. Be thankful for those few who walk beside you in good times and bad.
4. Intense times of aloneness with God are required---Not even your intimate spiritual companions are invited to attend some meetings with God. Sometimes God reserves the right to withhold others and pull you aside with Him so that you can experience whta David did in 1 Samuel 30:6 "David found strength in the Lord his God."
5. You will be constantly on the witness stand---there will never be a time when your not subject to the observations of others. Do we want to be conformed to the image of Christ, or do we want to be comforted?
6. You must go "outside the camp"--To live beyond yourself means going out of your comfort zone. What has God been wanting you to do, but you keep putting it off because it's outside of your comfort zone? There's a reason it's uncomfortable for you...because it's when we don't think we're capable to doing something that we really allow the Spirit to work in us, use us, guide us. I know there is something He has been calling me to do that I don't feel capable of doing well. This is a good reminder to me that it's NOT ABOUT ME. If He wants me to do something He will give me the wisdom, strength and direction to do it.
7. There will be times when your dignity is forfeited-- in those moments when we're vulnerable and exposed, the shadow of the Almighty may be the only covering we have! (Psalm 91:1)
8.You must forego your rights--You may have rights of your own, but to be crucified with Christ means that you volunteer to forego all your personal rights except one: your right as a believer to be filled and led by the Spirit of Christ who dwells within you.
9. You must accept that death is painful-- At times, to choose the will of God is excruciating. We love our flesh and it hurts to have its desires crucified. Never misunderstand pain as permission to forego the will of God. It's called sacrafice!
10. Because He was forsaken, you never will be